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Is it just me, or...? [Oct. 4th, 2006|04:28 pm]

I'm getting remarks similar to the ones people in the LGBT community get. You know, the most common one: "All you need to find is the right guy (for lesbians) or the right girl (for gays)."

The version I get goes like this: "You just need to find the right white guy." -_-;

Another remark I get along these lines is that apparently, despite my "thing" about Asians, I must deep down inside want a white guy. Something like that, I can't remember the exact words.

Only in these cases do I wish people would keep their thoughts to themselves.

[User Picture]From: nebulosity
2006-10-04 10:12 pm (UTC)
lol! But after what you've gone through with Hsiaokwai (sp?), do you have any desire to find another relationship so quickly? o.O AND I don't think ethnicity has anything to do with quality or compatibility of a relationship. :P Who knows, maybe someday when you finish school and things have settled down, maybe you'll find a BETTER asian guy who treats you right. :D
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[User Picture]From: shinwachou
2006-10-04 11:26 pm (UTC)
These aren't things I was saying; they were random remarks made by acquaintances, mostly.

You know, one of the arguments Hsiaokwai is trying to make in regards to my staying here (not in relationship terms, just in terms of practicality in regards to Olivia) is that it'll be supposedly easier on me, factoring in college and work, plus his reasoning that either me or him will be with Olivia at all times. That's all fine and dandy, but sometime in 2007 I *will be* moving out, and we need to be realistic here.

He says I shouldn't worry about dating until I finish school. I'm not concerning myself with finding another relationship just yet, however, I'm not waiting till I finish school (I mean, c'mon now, both of you are still in college lol) to find someone else. I'll do what feels right to me.

All that said, it has nothing to do with what people are saying to me. They said it to me before me and him split, and they're still saying it.

*hugs* I love you, Cherie. It always cheers me up when we talk.
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